Tips on creating a harmonious play experience for both parents and children.
All children go through developmental stages that challenge their parents and carers.
It is important to be aware that:
- Parents view behaviour differently depending on whether their child is displaying the behaviour or being affected by the behaviour.
- Challenging behaviours (whilst normal) can disrupt the smooth running of a group and cause anxiety for the parents, other families, and facilitators.
- Positive group dynamics are achieved when everyone agrees on ways to maintain a safe and inclusive group.
When managing children's behaviour, it is important to consider both the group and the children.
Considerations for the group could include:
- Talk as a group and agree on group expectations
- Create different play-zones to meet different needs. Eg. Open space for big energetic activities, quiet space for calming down
- Provide enough activities to keep children engaged (but not too many to cause over-
stimulation) - Cap group numbers to avoid crowded or noisy spaces. Consider offering two sessions a
week - Complete Play Matters Inclusion Training for more information and ideas on adapting a group for diverse needs.
Considerations for the children could include:
- Children grow and learn at different paces
- Children with behavioural challenges are not necessarily a product of poor parenting
- Children face different challenges that may impact their behaviour
- Children have diverse life experiences and stressors.
For tips on supporting parents of children with challenging behaviour see this article, or visit the Tip Sheet.